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What If Your Toddler Won't Cooperate At The Photo Shoot? | Seattle Family Photographer

I’m been a family photographer for almost twenty years.

Before that I was a preschool and kindergarten teacher.

I’m also a mother to twin boys.

At this point in my life I feel it’s safe to say that I “get” kids. And one thing that I know for sure is this… sometimes children, especially toddlers, don’t do what you want them to do!

Ha!

Shocking, I know!

I also know that this particular character trait can be REALLY frustrating, especially at a photoshoot! So let me tell you how I handle toddlers who do NOT want to cooperate.

I Never Force Them To Do Something They Don’t Want To Do

I have learned over the years that the best way to bring on a meltdown is to try to get a toddle to do something they don’t want to do. So if your toddlers is giving me a hard no, I will respect that.

What I’ve found is when we don’t force the issue, they usually come around.

For example, in the photos below, the mom really wanted a picture of her toddler with the new baby.

Her toddler however, was NOT interested.

So instead of forcing the issue. We just waited. Eventually he decided that he was a little curious about what we were doing. I asked him questions about himself and about the baby. Things like “can you show me where your ear is? Can you show me where the baby’s ear is?”… and eventually we get the shots!

I Try to Make The Photoshoot Fun

I always have lots of toys and things for your toddler to do at the studio. Most of the time, it takes older kids a few minutes to warm up to me, and having fun activities for them to engage with is a great way to get them loosened up and ready for pictures!

I Have LOTS of Stickers and Lollipops

Because a little bribery never hurts, I have a tons of stickers and lollipops on hand!

I Have a Sense of Humor

Like I said, I’ve worked with kids for a really long time. So if your child doesn’t cooperate or has a little melt down, please do not worry about me or what I think. I get it. I’m a mom too!

Remember, photos are meant to capture your child as they are now. There is now right and no wrong. And I’ve been doing this for a really long time… I’m confident that we will get photos you will love!

sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
sandra coan photography | seattle washington studio lighting and film photographer | baby and brother on bed and brother doesn't want to pose with new baby
What to Wear for Babies and Kids | Seattle Studio Photography

I frequently get emails and questions from clients about what to wear or how to dress their kids for their studio session with me. If you're a photographer, I'm sure you can relate! And as a parent, I totally get it. Although my boys dress themselves and have for a while now, figuring out outfits for families can be tough. 

So, we've put together a roundup of some of our favorite outfits and clothing items we've seen in the studio for 2018 so far. 

You can also find more outfit inspiration by heading over to my Pinterest page!

seattle studio photographer what to wear family photography how to dress your kids | sandra coan photography

Simple white onesie with an adorable winter hat.

seattle studio photographer what to wear family photography how to dress your kids | sandra coan photography
seattle studio photographer what to wear family photography how to dress your kids | sandra coan photography

Simple neutrals, matching dresses and cute headbands. 

what to wear for your studio session with sandra coan photography sisters in matching blue dresses

More matching! Three sisters in light blue dresses.

what to wear to your studio session with sandra coan photography seattle baby photographer

Whites and pastels are always a good idea. And bows!

pink seersucker dress studio portrait seattle photographer sandra coan
light blue seersucker overalls studio photography in seattle | sandra coan family photography

Seersucker always looks so cute! And I love the pastel colors.

light blue seersucker overalls | seattle family studio photography sandra coan

The sweetest light blue, seersucker overalls. Those button details!!

what to wear studio photography seattle family photographer sandra coan
what to wear seattle studio photography sandra coan

More colorful, patterned outfits look great on film as well! I love that these siblings went with coordinating outfits as opposed to perfectly matching.

sandra coan photography what to wear to the studio for babies and kids
sandra coan photography what to wear to the studio seattle family photographer
sandra coan photography what to wear to the studio seattle family photographer

Give me all the cute baby headbands and simple dresses!

sandra coan photography what to wear to the studio seattle family photographer
sandra coan photography what to wear to the studio seattle family photographer

Both of these dresses are so fun and show so much personality. Plus, outfit changes during studio sessions are totally worth it!

 

I hope you find these outfits to be good inspiration for your next studio session!

These were just a few of our favorites we've seen so far in 2018. Let the cuteness continue!